On Love and Unity
I was listening to a talk by Erica Toussaint today. Here are the quotations she refers to.
Wherefore must the loved ones of God associate in affectionate fellowship with stranger and friend alike, showing forth to all the utmost loving-kindness, disregarding the degree of their capacity, never asking whether they deserve to be loved. In every instance let the friends be considerate and infinitely kind. Let them never be defeated by the malice of the people, by their aggression and their hate, no matter how intense. If others hurl their darts against you, offer them milk and honey in return; if they poison your lives, sweeten their souls; if they injure you, teach them how to be comforted; if they inflict a wound upon you, be a balm to their sores; if they sting you, hold to their lips a refreshing cup.
Selections from the Writings of `Abdu’l-Bahá pp 22-25
Blessed are they who are the means of making unity among the friends, and pity on those who in the right or wrong are the cause of discord. For instance: when one is in the right in a case in dispute, and his minority prevents him from establishing this rightful matter, instead of agitating the subject, if he will humbly submit to sacrifice his position for the sake of unity and peace, God will accept that sacrifice and ere long the rightful matter will be established without any further dispute, by the Divine assistance; whereas without such sacrifice and submissiveness great harm might ensue. The friends must be prepared to efface themselves at all times. Seeking the approval of men is many times the cause of imperiling the approval of God.
Abdu’l-Bahá, in Star of the West, Vol. 6, no. 6, p 45
Let not your heart be offended with anyone. If some one commits an error and wrong toward you, you must instantly forgive him. Do not complain of others. Refrain from reprimanding them, and if you wish to give admonition or advice, let it be offered in such a way that it will not burden the bearer. Turn all your thoughts toward bringing joy to hearts.
`Abdu’l-Bahá The Promulgation of Universal Peace p 452
for·give v.tr. To renounce anger or resentment against.
In order to achieve this cordial unity one of the first essentials insisted on by Bahá’u'lláh and `Abdu’l-Bahá is that we resist the natural tendency to let our attention dwell on the faults and failings of others rather than on our own. Each of us is responsible for one life only, and this is our own. Each of us is immeasurable far from being ‘perfect as our heavenly Father is perfect’ and the task of perfecting our own life and character is one that requires all our attention, our will-power and energy. If we allow our attention and energy to be taken up in efforts to keep others right and remedy their faults, we are wasting precious time. we are like ploughmen each of whom has his team to manage and his plough to direct, and in order to keep his furrow straight he must keep his eye on his goal and concentrate on his own task. If he looks to this side and that to see how Tom and Harry are getting on and to criticise their ploughing, then his own furrow will assuredly become crooked.
On no subject are the Bahá’í teachings more emphatic than on the necessity to abstain from fault-finding and backbiting while being ever eager to discover and root out our own faults and overcome our own failings. If we profess loyalty to Baha’u'llah, to our Beloved Master and our dear Guardian, then we must show our love by obedience to these explicit teachings. Deeds not words are what they demand, and no amount of fervour in the use of expressions of loyalty and adulation will compensate for failure to live in the spirit of the teachings.
From a letter dated May 12, 1925 written on behalf of Shoghi Effendi to an individual believer, Compilation “On the Bahá’í Life” printed by the National Spiritual Assembly of the Bahá’ís of Canada, p 3
O ye lovers of this wronged one! Cleanse ye your eyes, so that ye behold no man as different from yourselves. See ye no strangers; rather see all men as friends, for love and unity come hard when ye fix your gaze on otherness. And in this new and wondrous age, the Holy Writings say that we must be at one with every people; that we must see neither harshness nor injustice, neither malevolence, nor hostility, nor hate, but rather turn our eyes toward the heaven of ancient glory. For each of the creatures is a sign of God, and it was by the grace of the Lord and His power that each did step into the world; therefore they are not strangers, but in the family; not aliens, but friends, and to be treated as such
Wherefore must the loved ones of God associate in affectionate fellowship with stranger and friend alike, showing forth to all the utmost loving-kindness, disregarding the degree of their capacity, never asking whether they deserve to be loved. In every instance let the friends be considerate and infinitely kind. Let them never be defeated by the malice of the people, by their aggression and their hate, no matter how intense. If others hurl their darts against you, offer them milk and honey in return; if they poison your lives, sweeten their souls; if they injure you, teach them how to be comforted; if they inflict a wound upon you, be a balm to their sores; if they sting you, hold to their lips a refreshing cup.
`Abdu’l-Bahá Selections From the Writings of `Abdu’l-Bahá p 24
In this way, the light of divine guidance will shine forth, and the blessings of God will cradle all mankind: for love is light no matter in what abode it dwelleth; and hate is darkness, no matter where it may make its nest.
Selections from the Writings of ‘Abdu’l-Bahá p 3
September 22nd, 2006 at 12:20 pm
I love how your blog is so Faith-centric, and yet outward-looking in the issues it discusses! Perchance is that talk by Erica available on mp3?
September 22nd, 2006 at 1:37 pm
Hi Prema,
Thanks for the compliment. I don’t really get any readers, though. Maybe once I get some of my children’s stories written there will be more traffic…
I’m in Charlottesville, Va. David Hunt was in this area a couple years ago at the Shenandoah Baha’i Summer School. The UVA Baha’i association has regular firesides, if you’d like to visit and be of some service…
just a thought.
I’ll put the mp3 of Erica Toussaint’s talk up on the site here for a few days at:
http://lavezzo.com/295/Criticism.mp3
Jeff